How to Handle Negative Feedback

"Failure is merely feedback that there is something blocking the path of the emergence and expansion of the greatest version of yourself." - Mother Teresa

I love making others happy. You could even say I'm a bit of a people pleaser. 

So when I received negative feedback from a student last week, I couldn't stop thinking about it. This feedback was given to me through someone else, not the unhappy student, so my mind was racing with questions.

After my mind exhausted itself, I came to the conclusion that it is impossible to please everyone. Not everyone is going to like me and I will receive more negative feedback in life. However, I can choose how to best handle such feedback.

Focus on the Positive

Turn negative feedback into a positive experience. Rather become defensive, or even offended, by the feedback, say thank you and reflect on how this feedback could improve your offering.

Have a Conversation

Remember - just as it's not always easy to hear negative feedback, it's not always easy to give it. Whether you receive negative or positive feedback, have a conversation. Listen. To quote my Dad: 'Ask questions. Don't make a statement'.

There is always more to learn; always room to grow.

May we all stay humble and kind.

xx